Gifts, not debts
Refill the snack station
Their chosen snacks and drinks, within easy reach.
The complete gift
Chosen items are dropped off; no shopping decisions left behind.
Make it welcome
Use their list and agreed budget. No supplements or health claims.
A clear offer to adapt
I can help with refill the snack station at a time we agree. I’ll handle it start to finish. No hosting, repayment or thank-you note expected. Would that be useful, or should I leave it for another time?
What happens next
Wait for acceptance, agree a time, and handle the whole task. Tell the captain when it is done or your plans change. Do not surprise the family with a visit or expense. A favor is not permission to take or share a child’s photo.
Allow about 15 minutes of helper effort; this is only an estimate. Any gift budget needs prior agreement. No payment is taken through this registry.